The Shared Journal + The Deck of Us Cards
Write It, Because We Can't Say It:
Connection shifts in the pre-teen years. It becomes less about physical closeness and more about emotional safety.
This bundle gives you a new channel for communication—one that removes the pressure of eye contact, immediate reactions, and awkward silences.
The Mother-Daughter Connection Bundle
Part 1: The Shared Journal (The System)
A "pass-back-and-forth" guide to lower the stakes.
🕊️ From Anxiety to Safety (The Peace Treaty):
A contract you both sign on Day 1 to establish "Rules of Engagement." This builds immediate psychological safety, ensuring she knows that what is written here, stays here.
🚦 From Guessing to Knowing (The Vibe Check):
Stop asking "What's wrong?" and getting a shrug. She simply circles her capacity (Green = Let's talk; Red = I need space). You get the data you need without the nagging.
❤️ From Conflict to Repair (The Repair Shop):
We all say things we regret. Use these guided templates to heal the rupture after a fight, teaching her emotional intelligence by modeling it yourself.
Part 2: The Deck of Us (The Tools)
60 cards to turn "interrogation" into connection.
⏳ The "Time Machine" Cards: Questions like "Mom, what was embarrassing about being my age?" humanize you. They remind her you weren't always "Mom"—you were a girl, too.
🧊 The "Icebreakers": Low-stakes dopamine hits (like "Zombie Apocalypse Plan: Go") that turn the car ride from a danger zone into a game.
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A "pass-back-and-forth" guide to lower the stakes.
🕊️ From Anxiety to Safety (The Peace Treaty):
A contract you both sign on Day 1 to establish "Rules of Engagement." This builds immediate psychological safety, ensuring she knows that what is written here, stays here.
🚦 From Guessing to Knowing (The Vibe Check):
Stop asking "What's wrong?" and getting a shrug. She simply circles her capacity (Green = Let's talk; Red = I need space). You get the data you need without the nagging.
❤️ From Conflict to Repair (The Repair Shop):
We all say things we regret. Use these guided templates to heal the rupture after a fight, teaching her emotional intelligence by modeling it yourself.
Part 2: The Deck of Us (The Tools)
60 cards to turn "interrogation" into connection.
⏳ The "Time Machine" Cards: Questions like "Mom, what was embarrassing about being my age?" humanize you. They remind her you weren't always "Mom"—you were a girl, too.
🧊 The "Icebreakers": Low-stakes dopamine hits (like "Zombie Apocalypse Plan: Go") that turn the car ride from a danger zone into a game.
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💫 Please be sure to not click away from the payment confirmation page until you’ve already accessed your purchase.
💫 You will also receive 2 emails, one to confirm your subscription and another to start bridging the gap!
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🙋🏻♀️
I’m a University Lecturer, a mom to a pre-teen, and a recovering perfectionist living on the French West Coast.
I spent years translating the world for my students and my daughter, leaving no language left for myself.
I realized, ou cannot make good decisions when you are in survival mode.
I created this bundle because I realized that as our daughters grow, love alone isn’t enough—we need a new language.
The tools that worked when they were toddlers don't work when they are pre-teens.
I designed this system to bridge the gap that often forms during these years. By moving difficult conversations from "face-to-face" to "page-to-page," we lower the defenses and build psychological safety.
This is the toolkit I wish I had to turn the silence into connection.
The tools that worked when they were toddlers don't work when they are pre-teens.
I designed this system to bridge the gap that often forms during these years. By moving difficult conversations from "face-to-face" to "page-to-page," we lower the defenses and build psychological safety.
This is the toolkit I wish I had to turn the silence into connection.
Elle Ash xo
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